I am in the middle of a very bad divorce in which I have expressed my desire for full custody because of physical, mental, and sexual abuse by my husband against me and physical abuse and 1 sexual abuse act to my 4 year old son. I legitimately feel that my children are in danger and my ex is not healthy or stable at this time.
I kept telling my Bishop and Elders Quorum Leaders about the abuses going on in our home which involved marital rape, spousal abuse and child abuse. These leaders kept "counseling" him instead of taking me aside and helping me file a report and get to safety.
I now have people not believing me that this great and upstanding Elder in the church could possibly have done the things I'm now yelling from the roof top.
If you are in a relationship with an abuser of any kind GET HELP OUTSIDE OF THE CHURCH.
Rape by your husband is still rape and should be reported to the police.